How does it feel to be single?

Hi Everyone, nice to meet you. I live in Australia and I have visited NY before-I love it I have some questions as I am researching for my book about finding love.

What do you see as your biggest roadblock to actually finding someone to create a future with? What thoughts go around and around, keeping you up at night? What is the biggest symptom you experience in your life that is a direct result of this search for love? How do you feel about your life currently? And especially-how incredible will you feel, and how will you live once you have that special person to enjoy life with?

Thanks so much